The Story Behind Your Personality (part one)

How did I get to be this way?  Almost nine years ago, after leaving another covertly abusive relationship, I sought out the wisdom of a Christian Psychiatrist. The first words out of his mouth were “So, why are you here?” I answered him, “I want to figure out why I...

Restoring Your True Identity

Awareness is the Gateway to Transformation We all have blind spots, but why would we care to seek them out? If we could discover them, what is the cost or benefit to bringing them out of the darkness? Who is willing to look deep into the patterns of their lives? Would...

Let’s Talk Somatics

Somatics and the Mind-Body Connection More than any title or credential, I consider myself a holistic and faith-based Life Coach. I deeply believe our wellbeing depends on living in greater balance – mind, body, spirit, and emotions all working together. Each...

How Your Attachment Filter is Formed

Creation of an Attachment Filter After more than a century of research into childhood development, one framework stands out with remarkable clarity: attachment theory. It may be the most powerful insight we have for understanding—and even predicting—the health,...

How the Body Experiences Trauma

Understanding the Wisdom of Your Body Being raised in the country, we were largely self-sustaining when it came to our food. That way of life also cultivated a diligent work ethic and required consistent physical labor to maintain our thirty-two-acre farm—habits that...